You seem pretty wise, I wanted to ask of you some advice. What can you do if you really miss an ex-lover but it's been years and there's no way of getting in contact with them?

You want advice that a standard human would give you or genuinely what i think you should do?

First: aw maybe you can find her on Facebook or something, I have no idea, someone you know must have a connection to someone she knows somehow?? There must be a way! Find her and see if you can be friends and maybe something more will happen again!

Real: swallow your feelings and never think of them again