Please know that these messages do nothing but upset me and read it again to realise how and actually think about how /I/ am going to feel from reading this. You say one thing with your words here but the fact you’ve even sent them kinda says differently…do you get what I mean? I appreciate you’re trying to be nice but it really is having the total opposite effect. It feels like this message isn’t for my benefit. Why as a total stranger express concern for my body? It’s just not friendly. If I wasn’t okay there would be 300 people that would notice and help me before I would need an anon on tumblr. This is really just insulting on quite a few levels. Please really deeply think about what you’ve really just sent here. Whilst saying you don’t want an explanation, why bother even sending this? I have a lot of people who love me, it isn’t necessary to send me a message basically telling me you think I’m unhealthy and need help? Because that is what you’ve done here in not so many words…this is just so insulting tbh.
Look, if I had an eating disorder this message would have been very triggering. As I don’t have an eating disorder & instead have many other mental health issues, this message is very triggering. Please think before you speak. I don’t want people seeing my body and then pitying me and feeling like they need to send me a message to see if I’m even okay - I’d never send this sort of thing to someone who hasn’t publicly said they have an eating disorder and are looking for support. Please NEVER comment on someone else’s body without them asking you to. It is never ever going to be helpful, ESPECIALLY like this :/
I’m so sad that you think this was a good message to send me :(